I’m nervous about spending time with my dying friend
DEAR DEIDRE: One of my oldest friends is dying, and I’m heartbroken.
My wife and I would like to spend as much time with her as we can before it’s too late, but we don’t want to intrude on her family time or upset her husband.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Your friend is so lucky to have caring, supportive and thoughtful people like you and your wife in her life.
Death can make so many of us feel uncomfortable and unsure about how behave, but your friend has welcomed your involvement so it sounds as if they would like to see you.
He’s probably exhausted and stressed. Why not message him, asking when the best times to visit are so you can give him a rest sometimes, and make sure she has company.
Say you’d like to be there for him too, whenever he needs you.
My support pack on Cancer may be useful for you to read.