Jacob moves on from Becca with his new girlfriend
NEITHER you nor Jacob were able to let each other know about your expectations and feelings.
You took a break because you weren’t communicating well, and then typically didn’t discuss what your relationship pause actually meant.
Setting out a framework would have given you both more security and confidence in each other.
It was unrealistic to think a break in itself would be the magic remedy you both needed.
Still, you saw your separation as temporary, while Jacob treated it as an opportunity to start dating again, so of course you are hurt.
The best you can do now is to stop looking at his socials and try to move on.
Learn from this and take your time to move forward into more emotionally mature relationships.
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