Bella asks her partner if she would consider an open relationship
DEIDRE SAYS: YOU are both very honest with each other. But for this arrangement to work you also need good communication.
In this case, it seems you both did not see this as a one-off experience.
As Violet doesn’t want to open your relationship on a long-term basis, you do need to respect her wishes, which may leave you feeling frustrated.
If you can’t compromise on exploring this new part of your sexuality, you’ll need to consider splitting.
It would be worth you both seeing a sex and relationship therapist. COSRT () can put you in touch with a reputable counsellor.
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