SO LOW
I’m convinced I will never find love because of my skin condition
READ Dear Deidre Editor Sally Land's personal replies to today's problems.
DEAR DEIDRE: All I want is to get married and build a life with someone, but I’m worried my skin condition will always get in the way.
My confidence is at rock bottom and I can’t help but think that I’ll end up being single forever.
I’m a 35-year-old man and I have vitiligo, which means my skin loses colour or pigmentation.
Ever since I was young I have felt insecure about my appearance. At school, I was bullied and a lot of my classmates constantly made horrible comments.
I’ve tried my best to build my confidence but dating has made me feel so low.
My condition is all over my body and face, so often women get put off before they even speak to me.
I feel like I’ve exhausted my options. I’ve tried the apps but I’m struggling to get any matches, never mind dates.
I have so much love to share, but wonder if I need to start accepting I may never get the chance.
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DEIDRE SAYS: While everyone feels insecure from time to time, constantly having such low self-esteem can be crippling for your mental health.
Try to focus on the things about you that you do like and if anyone mentions your skin, talk to them about your condition.
While dating can be challenging, remember that your skin is a major part of who you are, and so the right person will love you regardless.
My support pack on Raising Self-esteem will help you build positive feelings about yourself.
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