My fiancée wants me back after humiliating me with a stranger
DEAR DEIDRE: My fiancée drove off with a stranger at a party after we had a huge bust-up.
Now she’s begging me to still marry her, three months on.
She is 31 and I’m 34. She’s got an OnlyFans account and is very body confident. We met when she hired me as I’m a videographer.
She was delighted with the footage and insisted on taking me for a drink. We had a couple of glasses of wine then dinner.
Time went so quickly, we really hit it off and they had to kick us out at the end of the night.
I went back to her place where she modelled some new underwear for me. It felt like all my birthdays had come at once and we were soon enjoying really intense sex.
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From that moment on we were inseparable. She admitted she gets a lot of male attention but said she loves how grounded I am.
We started dating and I moved in. Our relationship is feisty, with lots of arguing, but I proposed on her birthday last year. Then, just before Christmas, we went to a party at a friend’s.
We were surrounded by stunning influencers. When she started flirting with a good-looking guy, I saw red.
I told her to talk to me outside but she refused and we ended up yelling across the kitchen.
She stormed out and the guy followed her. When I went on to the balcony all I could see was his car disappearing down the road.
I moved my stuff out of her flat and didn’t hear from her for months.
She’s now texted me saying she wants to meet. She’s even asked whether our wedding is still on.
I’m not sure whether to go for it, or run a mile.
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: Having a fiery relationship may feel exciting but it is based on drama and instability.
If you both want to make your relationship work you’re going to need to improve your communication.
Rather than trying to control her, you need to be able to explain your feelings and she needs to take your emotions into consideration without running off.
Her job involves working with lots of people who find her attractive so it’s going to be a case of setting boundaries that you are both happy with.
My Jealousy support pack will help you when the red mist descends and another called Relationship MOT will show you how to begin to get things back on track.