I had sex with online lover and he has suddenly stopped responding to messages
DEAR DEIDRE: I FELT an incredible connection with a man I have been talking to for weeks.
We had two great dates and even had sex.
But he seems to have ghosted me.
I’m female, we are both 25 and it was all going so well.
I would wake up to a sweet morning text, we’d chat throughout the day and video call last thing.
But last Thursday there was no morning message. When I texted him, he left it unread for hours.
I’ve called him three times since and he hasn’t answered. This behaviour doesn’t match the caring guy I met online.
Should I give up?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Some people who don’t have the courage to have a difficult conversation opt to simply drop those they don’t want a relationship with.
This man doesn’t deserve your hurt.
Take care of yourself and when you are ready, get out there again.
Rather than online dating, concentrate on real life friendships for genuine connections.
My support pack Finding The Right Partner For You should help.