My rich relative may think I’m a golddigger, but I have one important question
DEAR DEIDRE: How do I ask my wealthy relative to be my son’s godmother without looking like a golddigger?
The last thing I’m thinking about is the money, but due to the circumstances, I know how it may look.
I’m 32 and I’ve always had a good relationship with my mum’s cousin who is 59. She spent a lot of time over my house growing up so I’ve always been close to her.
Just a few months ago my great aunt sadly passed away and she inherited a small fortune. Being the lovely lady she is, she told my mum that she’s decided to put some of it away for her goddaughter.
Currently, I’m eight months pregnant, and I already had it in my mind that I wanted her to be my son’s godmother.
I’m worried if I ask her now it’ll look suspicious but I can't imagine asking anyone else.
I don’t want her to think less of me, but I know she would be the best godmother to my son.
What should I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: It’s understandable that you’re worried about asking, as it could look calculated.
However, if you’ve always had a close relationship with her and want her to be your son’s godmother, don’t let this stop you from asking her.
While she has inherited a large sum of money and it’s natural to worry about how it might look, the people who matter won’t make such negative assumptions about you.
I’m sure she will be thrilled.
