I can’t stop having sex in cars with work lover who says he won’t leave his wife for me

DEAR DEIDRE: I had incredible sex with my lover on the back seat of a camper van while we were both “working late” one night.

Since then, we regularly “road test” cars which customers leave at our airport parking facility.

I’m a 24-year-old woman and I’ve fallen for my work lover, but he’s married with kids.

I’m quite new to the business and was taken on as an admin assistant.

This guy is 42, funny and fit. He’s one of the managers and very popular across the whole company.

I noticed him soon after I joined. He’s got a gorgeous smile and when he talks to you, he makes you feel like you are the only one in the room.

At first we just chatted and joked when I did my rounds with the post.

But soon I was spending more time in his part of the building than anywhere else.

He always works late, and I started to work late as well.

One night the place was deserted except for us. He made me coffee and said I was the best-looking woman in the whole company.

He told me I make his day when I walk through the door.

When I admitted I felt the same about him, he seemed surprised but chuffed.

Next thing, he gave me a kiss. It was incredible and I left that night wanting more.

The following week he invited me for a drink after work. Again we ended up kissing but this time he led me back to the parking area at work and unlocked a camper van.

We ended up having sex in the back seat.

Since then we’ve had sex in the back of a Bentley, a Range Rover and even a minibus.

We’ve been having an affair for three months.

He told me he loves me but is adamant he won’t ever leave his wife or his kids.

I want him so much it drives me crazy. But what can I do?

DEIDRE SAYS: It’s very simple – tell him it’s over.

Of course, that’s easy to say but not necessarily easy to do.

This guy wants it all – wife and kids at home and then sex on the side with a gorgeous young woman.

He won’t believe his luck that someone with their whole life ahead of them would entertain this fantasy of love – because that’s what it is.

It’s may have been fun so far, but you know it’s not real and isn’t going anywhere.

The time has arrived to draw a line under this, to move on and meet guys closer to your own age.

There’s someone out there who is available and who can give you the love and full-time attention which you deserve.