My girlfriend went into a rage and threatened to punch our landlord
DEAR DEIDRE: One dunk in the hot tub with my landlord sent my girlfriend into a rage, with her saying she’ll punch him if it happens again.
She said the only one allowed in a hot tub with me is her.
We’ve been dating for two months and I think the world of her. She’s 30.
I jokingly mentioned that we’d got into the hot tub together one night after a few drinks in our local pub while my girlfriend was visiting her sister.
I didn’t think anything of it, but when I mentioned it, I saw a different side to her.
She looked really angry.
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DEIDRE SAYS: If you think she’s got an abusive side to her, then yes, this is definitely a red flag.
At the very least, this is controlling behaviour and you have a right to see any friends you like.
Abuse doesn’t always take the form of violence, you can be controlled or mentally or emotionally abused.
Talk to her about what she said and see whether she was being serious.
If she was, then think very carefully what a relationship with someone like this would mean in the long term.
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