I can’t stop thinking about a married man after realising he’s my perfect guy
DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I love is married, but I can’t stop hoping I have a chance with him.
We work together, so I see him every day. I know he likes me too because he always smiles and wants to chat.
I’m 37 and he’s 40. He’s married with two children. We’ve been colleagues at an estate agency for just over a year. I fancied him the moment I saw him.
But it was when we got talking that I realised he’s my perfect guy.
We have so much in common. We both love playing tennis, watching motor racing and spy thrillers.
I’ve been single for 11 years and, although I’ve had dates, nothing has worked out.
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He’s been arguing with his wife lately, which makes me think he isn’t happy.
Even though I know it’s wrong, I’m sure he’d be better off with me.
DEIDRE SAYS: Stop right there. He’s not just married, he has children.
If you start an affair with him, it’s also their lives you’d be messing with and possibly spoiling.
He’s given you no clear signs he’s interested other than being friendly. Every couple has rows.
Not to mention that many workplaces frown on office romances, especially affairs. You could end up wrecking your career too.
Please try to find someone who is available. Your crush will fade. My pack, Finding The Right Partner For You should help.
