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My boyfriend microcheats shamelessly

DEAR DEIDRE: I’ve lost faith in my boyfriend since I caught him watching videos of half-naked girls on TikTok.

The worst part is he doesn’t even feel bad about it.

I’m 16, he’s 17 and we’ve been together for two years.

Over the last few months, we’ve been having issues because I keep catching him liking photos of other girls.

He promised me he would stop, but as time passed his behaviour hasn’t changed.

Now I’ve caught him intently watching filthy videos. I feel disappointed and betrayed.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You need to ask yourself how much he really cares about you if he continues to do something he knows upsets you.

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