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My partner’s debt is threatening our whole relationship

DEAR DEIDRE: A relationship with my long-distance lover is impossible because of his debt.

He lied about having a family commitment because he couldn’t afford to visit me. I’m angry but I’ve fallen for him, and I’m not sure whether I should break up with him.

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DEIDRE SAYS: He probably lied because he was embarrassed or proud.

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But long-distance relationships are tricky, and if he can’t afford to travel, it’ll be hard to make this work.

You won’t be on an equal footing and will end up feeling resentful.

It might be wise to keep this as a friendship and see if there’s someone better suited out there for you.

My support pack, Finding The Right Partner For You, should help.

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