My medication is turning my life upside down
DEAR DEIDRE: What woman would want me? I’m overweight and can’t get an erection due to medication I am on.
My tablets aren’t doing me any favours at the moment. I was put on them five years ago because I had a psychotic episode. They helped for a while but then I came off them.
When the pandemic happened I had a breakdown again. I couldn’t bear being holed up in my flat. My doctor put me back on the medication and I felt better.
But my weight has spiralled and I have a diet of fast food. I’ve got very little energy and now I can’t get an erection even when I try by myself. I’m 37 and I feel so miserable.
I’d love a long-lasting relationship but who would want me like this?
Should I come off my medication again?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Not without professional guidance. It can be very dangerous to self-medicate or take yourself off prescribed medication.
Your erectile dysfunction may be caused by medication, but let your doctor look at the alternatives.
Only you have the power to change your habits. Decide that 2024 is the start of a new you.
There are thousands of healthy recipes online. Shop at markets for cheaper produce.
The walk will help your weight and bank balance.
If you have a friend or relative to act as an exercise buddy, this will encourage you. My support pack Weight Worries has other tips.
