My husband can’t stop eyeing up other women right in front of me
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband blatantly eyes up other women right in front of me.
We recently went to a nice restaurant on holiday and he had his eye on a woman in a low-cut top all evening – even repositioning his chair so he could ogle her.
I am 43 and he’s 45. The same thing happened the next night when we went to get fish and chips, and the night after that.
In fact it happened every single day.
He makes me feel so insecure that whenever he goes away for work, which is fairly regularly, I spend the entire time worrying that he’s with another woman.
I get exhausted with the paranoia. What can I do?
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DEIDRE SAYS: These two issues are related.
Despite knowing the way he looks at other women upsets you, he still does it.
So of course this will affect your self-esteem and confidence in him when he works away.
Tell him if you really matter to him and he loves you he will stop.
My support pack Raising Self-esteem will help you deal with this.
