Is it normal to have orgasms on the spot when my mind wanders onto something dirty?
DEAR DEIDRE: SITTING in a traffic jam last week, my mind drifted to a very hot encounter I had with a fling.
Next thing I knew, I’d actually had an orgasm there in my car.
Is it normal or safe to be able to have an orgasm just by thinking about it?
I’m a 29-year-old woman and have had a couple of relationships.
I don’t need any kind of penetration or even to touch myself to reach climax.
I’ve never heard of this and I’ve never met anyone else who can do this.
I’m worried. Do I need to get this investigated?
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DEIDRE SAYS: You are clearly anxious as a result of this experience.
We read a lot about how women should experience an orgasm, whether it’s through penetration or masturbation.
But there is no wrong way to have an orgasm.
It isn’t uncommon for women to climax while enjoying a sexy dream.
You are how you are, so try not to worry.
Just enjoy it.
My Women And Orgasm support pack has more information.
