I’ve felt so isolated since my wife passed away
DEAR DEIDRE: Ever since my wife died four years ago I have felt so isolated and lonely.
I’ve been desperate for some company but meeting new friends at my age is impossible.
Now, I spend most of my days on my own at home. I’m 70 and retired.
While I do have a handful of friends who I occasionally see for a pint at the pub, most of them don’t have much time for me.
My daughter visits as much as she can but unfortunately lives across the country so I don’t see her very often either.
The other day she suggested I try something called Men's Sheds. She told me it would be a great idea and I could meet other men in the same situation, but the only problem is I’m absolutely useless at DIY.
Minus the odd jobs around the house, I’ve never done any handy work in my life so I’m worried it wouldn’t be a good fit.
Are there any other options out there?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Don’t be discouraged, you don’t need to be good at DIY to attend Men’s Sheds (). It’s a community space for men to connect, converse, and create.
Give it a go and see how you find it. You can also check out Meet Up (), which shows events and clubs in your local area.
Rest Less () is also a great way to connect with other people over 50.
My support packs on Feeling Lonely and Widening Your Social Scene will help too.
