Oliver’s girlfriend confronts him about hiding the mail
DEIDRE SAYS: UNTIL Oliver takes responsibility for his gambling addiction and admits he has a problem, this situation won’t improve.
There is plenty of support available out there, but he needs to start seeking help.
Do be careful if your name is down on the lease, or utilities accounts as you would also be held liable for any debts.
Get in touch with Citizens Advice (citizensadvice.org.uk) for clear guidance on where you stand.
Don’t leave Oliver indefinitely in your home as he could be getting both of you into even worse financial mire.
Please do pass on my support pack, Gambling Problems, which has plenty of resources to help both of you.
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