Lydia finds Theo with another woman and kicks him out
DEIDRE SAYS: I HEAR from so many couples who struggle with similar living arrangements.
Theo has been sending you confusing messages, but now you know he’s bringing other women to your home, at least you can get some clarity over where you stand.
Think about whether you still want him back, or whether this is the final nail in the coffin for you.
If you are open to reconciliation, ask him how he feels, so you can work out your next steps.
Living in limbo is the most disheartening position to be in.
If you both decide you do want to part company, agree clear boundaries that go beyond a kitchen timetable.
I’d suggest no more dates in the house as a good starting point.
Next, plot a clear plan so you can both move on.
Relationship counselling, either alone or together, will help you with either outcome.
Have a look at Tavistock Relationships () who can help provide a reputable therapist.
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