Sadie’s girlfriend is shocked to catch her in bed with her brother
DEIDRE SAYS: YOUR worst scenario has happened and Alice has discovered your infidelity.
She will rightly feel furious and incredibly hurt especially as you cheated with someone she should have been able to count on – her own brother.
I doubt very much she would want to give your relationship another chance after such betrayal.
Regardless of whether she wants to work things through, or not, she deserves a genuine apology – from both of you.
If she does want to consider rekindling things with you, you owe it to her to work through your feelings first to ensure you don’t let her down again.
Many people’s sexuality ebbs and flows. But no matter whether you are gay, heterosexual or bisexual, cheating with anyone, regardless of their gender, is incredibly damaging.
You can contact Switchboard LGBT+ (, 0800 0119 100) which helps anyone dealing with issues relating to their sexuality to talk through any concerns they have.
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