Brian’s breaks vasectomy news to his pregnant girlfriend
DEIDRE SAYS: BOTH you and Brian have been dishonest with each other.
He allowed you to think you could try for a child with him, and in turn, you cheated on him with his best friend.
But now you are pregnant, there is a third potential life you both need to consider – as a priority.
It is highly unlikely that Brian could be the father as only two in every 1,000 vasectomies fail – and normally within the first year of the procedure.
And I’m afraid you can’t be sure of the parentage until after the baby has been born.
You need to be honest with Brian and think carefully about the very real prospect of whether you are ready to bring up this child alone.
I am sending you my support pack on complicated pregnancies which will help you to make the right decision for all of you.
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