My boyfriend’s attitude towards me keeps changing – it’s so unsettling
DEAR DEIDRE: ONE minute my new fella is all over me, telling me he loves me, and the next he’s cold and distant – it’s so unsettling.
We met four months ago and at first it was going well. He seemed really interested.
Due to work we’d only see each other once or twice a week but we chatted every day.
I am 49 and he is 53. He told me at the beginning that he didn’t want anything serious as he’d just come out of a toxic relationship, which I understood.
But over the last month he has changed and I don’t know whether I’m coming or going.
When I told him I felt like he wasn’t as into us as I was, he said he wanted a break.
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He snapped at me that he didn’t want a relationship and needed time on his own.
We had an argument over the phone a week ago and he hung up on me.
Now he is totally ignoring me. How could he cut me out like that?
I am so hurt and confused.
DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps he simply had a change of heart, and it really was too soon after his previous relationship to be back on the dating scene.
But it does sound like he has taken the coward’s way out.
It would be best for you to accept this is over and move on. My support pack Mend Your Broken Heart will help.
Get out with your friends and network. That way it may not be too long before you find somebody special.
