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How do I ask beauty on Instagram to be my girlfriend?

DEAR DEIDRE: I’M in love with a girl I saw on Instagram. She knows how I feel because I told her.

She liked my message but didn’t reply. I’m 17, she’s 20.

She’s absolutely gorgeous – even without a filter – and the stuff she posts shows she’s also kind and funny, which is my dream girl.

I’ve never met anyone like her in real life, so there’s no point telling me to forget her.

But I have no idea how to take this further without scaring her off. I don’t want her to think I’m a stalker or some kind of fanboy.

How can I make her my girlfriend?

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DEIDRE SAYS: In your head, she’s your dream girl, but you don’t really know her.

Sadly, the fact she politely liked your message but didn’t reply suggests she doesn’t want to get to know you. 

You’d be wise to try to meet someone you can have a real relationship with. My support pack, Finding The Love Of Your Life, should help.

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