I can’t catch a break from my overbearing and neurotic mother
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I left home, I thought I’d get some peace from my anxious mother, but she calls me day and night.
I can’t even go out to the student union pub without her calling to make sure I’m safe.
My mates take the mickey but it’s no joke. I’m 18 and went to university last September.
Mum is 48 and has always been fragile and neurotic.
One of the reasons I chose a university 200 miles away was so I could get some distance.
I love her, and want her to have peace of mind, but she’s driving me crazy with her calls.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You need your independence, so it’s time to set some boundaries.
Tell your mum how much this is affecting you and ask her to call only at arranged times, or in an emergency.
My pack, Standing Up For Yourself, can help. Ask her to contact (03444 775774) for support.
