My girlfriend’s identical twin tricked me into a kiss – now she wants sex
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend’s identical twin sister tricked me into kissing her, and now she wants full sex.
I love my girlfriend and would never cheat on her, and I’m terrified she’ll find out.
I’m 28 and the twins are 25.
They are identical in almost every way, from their looks to their voices and personalities.
The only difference I’m aware of is that my girlfriend has a birthmark on her chest and I think she is a little slimmer than her twin.
They’ve often joked about how hard it is for people to tell them apart. As teens, they played practical jokes on dates.
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I’ve always said, “I know I could 100 per cent tell you apart.”
A couple of weeks ago, my girlfriend had a day off.
As I was about to go on my lunchbreak, I got a call from reception to say she was there waiting for me. It was a pleasant surprise. We went to a cafe and chatted about work.
When we said goodbye, she kissed me passionately while she caressed my bottom — and noted my strong erection.
She said we could carry on where we left off later.
I thought nothing of it until that evening, when I came home, eager to finish what we’d started.
My girlfriend said she’d had a lovely day off, shopping with friends.
Then she told me they’d all had lunch in a new restaurant.
I froze as I realised what had happened.
When I texted her sister, she just replied with a laughing emoji.
Then she followed up with, “I know you want to do it again . . . and more.”
I told her very clearly I’d never cheat on her sister. She said, “We’ll see”. But I feel sick about it. I have been duped.
I have no idea if my girlfriend’s sister plans to tell her what’s happened. Or does she already know?
I can’t avoid her sister forever.
And my girlfriend has noticed I seem withdrawn.
MORE FROM DEAR DEIDRE
DEIDRE SAYS: You haven’t done anything wrong and shouldn’t feel guilty.
This may be just a game to your girlfriend’s sister, but it is morally wrong.
You didn’t consent to kiss her. And making someone cheat isn’t funny.
As this is eating you up, perhaps you should tell your girlfriend – not least because if she isn’t in on the “trick”, she needs to know her sister is impersonating her.
If she is in on it, you need to tell her how upset you are.
My support pack, Looking After Your Relationship, should help.
