After years of misery with a cheating partner, you helped me leave
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of being ground down by my unfaithful, lying partner, I felt broken and worthless.
He gaslit me so often that I believed my mental health was the problem in our failing relationship, not his constant cheating.
When I wrote, we’d been together for ten years and had two children. I’m 38 and he’s 42.
He would openly message other women and had several affairs, but if I glanced at another man, he would get angry and accusatory.
If I told him I’d had enough of it all, he would say he couldn’t imagine life without me.
You told me he was abusive and sounded narcissistic, and I deserved better.
I finally felt I wasn’t losing it and it made me look at my life objectively.
It gave me the strength to kick him out and block him.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You have done the right thing for you and your children, and I wish you a happier future.