I’ve been sharing saucy pics with another guy as my boyfriend doesn’t give me attention

DEAR DEIDRE: I MATCHED with three guys online when my boyfriend was in the room next door.

We are both 19 and live in our uni’s halls of residence.

It was fireworks when we met but now he has his friend over to play Xbox every night and I sit there like a spare part.

He doesn’t give me any attention any more so I went back on my dating app.

I’ve been sharing saucy pics with one of the guys and I got that thrill that I’d been missing.

But it turns out the other guy lives on campus and I’m terrified my boyfriend will find out. Should I tell him?

DEIDRE SAYS: Yes. Tell him you feel neglected and taken for granted.

And it would be better he heard about the other guy from you rather than someone else.

If you really want to make a go of the relationship, be honest about what led you to look elsewhere.