Six months after dad’s death I still can’t bear to clear out his belongings
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T bring myself to clear out my dad’s belongings after he passed away six months ago.
I’m 41 and he was 59 when he died of prostate cancer.
I didn’t even know he was ill until his last month alive.
He was able to conceal it well because I live miles away.
My siblings, who live in the next town, didn’t have an inkling either.
It was all very sudden and I feel guilty I wasn’t there for him.
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Even now I can’t seem to step up to the plate and help my siblings make big decisions about the house and clear his belongings.
I’m off sick from work, as I’m struggling to function with overwhelming grief. When will this feeling end?
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DEIDRE SAYS: This has come as a huge shock to you.
Take your time and explain to your siblings how you feel, to help them understand.
Read my support packs on Counselling and Bereavement to help you to manage your grief.
The charity Sue Ryder () offers six weeks of free help.
