George walks in on girlfriend Alice in bed with his freeloader mate
DEIDRE SAYS: Dear George... Your friend has well and truly taken advantage of your hospitality and it is time to show him the door.
Now you must decide if you want to salvage your relationship with Alice.
First off ask yourself: Is she genuinely remorseful?
Does she regret her fling?
If you do want to try to rebuild your relationship you will have to be prepared to discuss the reasons why she cheated.
What does she feel she is missing from your relationship?
Without a full and frank discussion, I’m afraid you would be simply papering over the cracks.
You would both benefit from relationship counselling, talking to someone removed from the situation, who can help you through these difficult discussions.
Tavistock Relationships () provide reputable counselling.
Get in touch with Deidre
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
Send an email to [email protected]
You can also send a private message on the Facebook page.
Most read in Dear Deidre
Stories styling
Supplied by and