Just when I thought I’d met the man of my dreams I got ghosted
DEAR DEIDRE: JUST when I thought I had finally met a decent man, he ghosted me.
I’m so confused and I don’t know what I’ve done wrong.
He’s 29, I’m 25 and we met via an app a month ago.
I couldn’t believe it when he super-liked me. He was exactly my type – tall, dark and handsome.
Our initial date went really well, and for the first time in years, I thought I had felt a genuine connection.
We went on to have three more dates, and I thought everything was going great.
But now he has fallen silent, and every message I’ve sent has gone unanswered.
I’m so upset and can’t make sense of it. Why would he do this to me?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Perhaps he didn’t have the courage to tell you that he wasn’t interested. But it was unfair to vanish without an explanation.
There is no way to know exactly what is running through his mind, but one thing is certain – he’s not right for you.
In future, you may want to consider other ways to meet new people.
My support pack Finding The Love Of Your Life will help.
