Olivia is stunned to find her boyfriend trying on women’s underwear

DEIDRE SAYS: Dear Olivia...

VINCENT may have deliberately left female underwear around, in the hope that you would discover his secret – that he cross-dresses.

Now you know, sit down and have a proper conversation with him.

Many men enjoy wearing women’s clothes, simply because they like the feel of the textiles.

And most cross-dressers are very happy in their heterosexual relationships.

Ask Vincent to be honest with you and explain his feelings, so that you can work out together how your relationship can progress.

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