NO FUTURE?

Happy family images my secret lover’s daughter draws are driving me crazy

DEAR DEIDRE: THE happy family images my secret lover’s daughter draws are driving me crazy. 

I’m a primary school teacher and met my lover three years ago.

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Whenever I mentioned moving in together she said she was ‘in love’ with me but ‘loved’ him because of their family

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She was married but said she felt more like a single parent.

Her husband worked away so much we spent plenty of time together. 

She is 41, I’m 43 and her husband is 45. 

I fell deeply for her. Whenever I mentioned moving in together she said she was ‘in love’ with me but ‘loved’ him because of their family.

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But over the last year her husband has started working from home more.

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Now her eight-year-old daughter, who is in my class, draws herself smiling with her mum and dad holding her hand.

Is there any real future for us?

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DEIDRE SAYS: You were a loving shoulder for her while her husband was absent. But now he seems more involved.

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Ask if she sees a future for you both and give her a time frame to commit.

Otherwise, walk away so you can meet someone else. My pack Your Lover Not Free will help.

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