Paul catches his girlfriend with another man after choosing work over her

DEIDRE SAYS:  NOW you know just how lonely Verity was, and the lengths she was prepared to go to for company, you need an honest talk.

Does she regret her liaison and would you realistically cut down on your working hours?

You’ve seen how Verity struggles having to spend so much time alone?

You can strengthen your relationship but only if you are both brave enough to spell out what wasn’t working for you before and what you would need in the future.

I’m sending you my support pack Cheating – Can You Get Over It, which will help you both navigate this upsetting discovery.