Elisa visits Dave’s girlfriend Jas to tell her the truth

Dear Dave

THERE are people who insist they can make open relationships work, through clear boundaries and understanding, but I only hear when those arrangements go wrong.

It’s hard to control your feelings when you’re spending lots of time and being intimate with someone outside of your relationship.

Now the cat is out of the bag, honesty  really will be the best way forward.

The fact you were keen on an open relationship early on suggests that you weren’t ready for real commitment at all.

Maybe you need to spend  time on your own to work out what you really want.

Deidre