SUDDEN REALISATION

I think I was raped as I woke up to my friend having sex with me

DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN I read a letter in a recent Dear Deidre column, I felt sick because I realised I might have been raped too.

Before that, I thought what had happened to me was normal, but now I feel really disturbed and upset.

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I am a 23-year-old single woman and, two months ago, I went out for a drink with a colleague.

We both got very drunk and ended up back at my place.

I remember letting him kiss me, and then blacking out.

When I came round, he was having sex with me on the sofa.

I think he stopped when I asked him to, but I can’t really remember.
It’s all a blur.

Maybe I’m overreacting but I don’t think I agreed to have sex.

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Was this rape and should I report him?

I can’t stop thinking about it.

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