I’m having sex dreams about my sister and it’s freaking me out
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE been having sex dreams about my sister, and they are freaking me out.
I am 16 and she is 18.
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We have a normal relationship, and I don’t think of her in a sexual way at all.
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So why am I having these weird dreams?
I feel embarrassed when I see my sister and it’s making me want to avoid her.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Sex dreams are very normal, especially when you are going through puberty and hormones are changing.
Don’t take these dreams literally. They don’t mean you want to have sex with your sister – they are just your brain getting mixed up with what’s happening in your body.
Try not to worry, but if you want to talk to someone in confidence, contact The Mix (, 0808 808 4994).