How to deal with anger
DEIDRE SAYS: Anger is a completely healthy, human emotion, but it can get out of control and become destructive.
Anger comes into play when reacting to other people, immediate events or when worrying over our personal problems.
- Self-help techniques
When you feel yourself getting angry, don’t let it build up into an aggressive outburst.
Relaxation techniques such as deep breathing and thinking about relaxing images can help calm down angry feelings.
You can also send a private message on the Facebook page.
- Try to express angry feelings in a positive way
If you are having or expecting a heated discussion, try expressing your anger in an assertive way, using calm, logical words.
In the moment, try to slow down and think carefully about what you want to say.
- Make lifestyle change
Life is stressful and it’s easy for pressure to build up.
We can’t control stressors in our lives, but we can find ways to reduce the pressure we put on ourselves.
Making lifestyle changes like eating a well-balanced diet, getting enough sleep and exercising regularly can prevent the build-up of tension and press pause on our everyday stressors.
More information is available in our Managing Anger support pack.
Whatever the situation, you’re not alone. The Dear Deidre team of experienced counsellors will be able to recommend the best next steps to help you learn how to respond better in anger.
For a support pack and personalised advice, email us at deardeidre@the-sun.co.uk or message us on .