I had a one-night stand with another man, but I’m straight
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD a one-night stand with another man. But I’m straight.
I’m 30 and have been into women since I was a teenager.
Never have I fancied a guy, or even imagined myself with one.
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Last weekend, I had to work away, so I stayed in a hotel.
I headed for the outdoor bar and got chatting to the barman, who was around my age.
I ended up staying until the bar closed and I must have drunk a lot because I can’t remember much about the rest of the night.
The next morning, I woke up and the barman was in the bed next to me.
He started kissing me and we had sex. It was my first time with a man.
I enjoyed the moment but now I feel ashamed and confused. Am I gay?
DEIDRE SAYS: Human sexuality is complex and can be fluid.
My support pack about Bisexuality could also help.