My wife will not stop sexting other fellas – how can I confront her again?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife says the sexy texts she is sending other guys are just banter, but I think there’s more to it.
She has sent several men flirty, dirty messages and pictures throughout our relationship.
I forgave her and she said it wouldn’t happen again, but a message popped up on her phone last week from a new guy. He was talking about sex, telling my wife to dream of him.
When I confronted her, she said it was just banter.
I left the house telling her I couldn’t forgive her again, but I love her and we agreed to talk. She said she likes the excitement and the riskiness.
I’m 36 and my wife is 34. We agreed she could continue the flirting if she shows me the conversations but I’m not sure this is doing any good for our relationship.
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DEIDRE SAYS: No, it won’t. Tell your wife you understand the lure of getting a buzz elsewhere but sexting is cheating.
Ask her how she would like it if you were doing the same with other women.
Make an effort to reboot your sex life.
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