I want to be sex buddies with my sister-in-law because my wife’s a bore in bed
DEAR DEIDRE: I wish my wife was more like her sister in bed – she’s such a bore.
I used to be sex buddies with her sister, who is hot. But my partner is like a lump in bed.
It was a decade ago that I met my sister-in-law, when we were both single. We were friends with benefits.
She married someone else but it was no biggie for me as the sex was great but I didn’t much enjoy her company.
But we stayed mates and a couple of years later she played matchmaker to hook me up with her sister. She was a lovely person and we got married.
My wife is 36, her sister is 34 and I’m 38. I’ve brought up exploring her “naughty side” but I don’t think she has one.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Do you know if your wife enjoys the sex you share? Does she orgasm? She is more likely to instigate making love if she gets something from it.
Does she know you fancy the pants off her or do you tend just to get into bed and expect sex?
Think of foreplay as starting when you bring her a cuppa in the morning rather than acting out what you might see in porn.
My e-leaflet How To Light Her Fire explains.
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