The guy I like says he’s too busy for a relationship right now
DEAR DEIDRE: THIS guy I like says he’s too busy for a relationship, even though he likes me too.
He is the manager at my dad’s garage and never gets a day off.
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But I find it hard to believe he doesn’t even have a spare half-hour so we can spend some one-to-one time together.
I’m 38 and he’s 35. He says he doesn’t want people to know about us liking one another, which is also a cause for concern.
He insists he can imagine a future with me but not just yet.
I am not naive. I really like him but don’t know what to do. Am I being fed a lie?
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DEIDRE SAYS: Well, from what you have told me, he is offering you nothing at all.
Why all the secrecy about liking one another?
It suggests that he is not being honest or fair with you, on all sorts of levels.
Save yourself lots of heartache and tell yourself he isn’t going to be the right man for you after all.
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