My wife’s only interested in me when she’s drunk and I want to get our spark back
DEAR DEIDRE: THE only time I get attention from my wife is when she has had a few glasses of wine.
We are both 31, work full-time, and have kids who are six and two. I do an equal share of chores and childcare.
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Whenever I try to talk to her about our lack of a sex life she makes excuses like she does not want to wake the kids up.
She even sleeps on the sofa at least twice a week saying she fell asleep watching TV.
I want to get the spark back in our sex life without alcohol involved, but I don’t know how to talk to her about it.
DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe a glass or two of wine helps your wife feel more relaxed and lower her inhibitions.
It’s great you share so much in the home but maybe you need to be more intuitive about how to set the scene for sex.
My e-leaflet on Creating A Sexy Mood will explain and emphasise to her that good sex does not need to be noisy sex.
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