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HEARTLESS

I was devastated to have a miscarriage and now my boyfriend’s ghosting me

DEAR DEIDRE: I AM being ghosted by my boyfriend since I had my miscarriage and I feel so alone.

I am 22 and in love with my boyfriend. We have been together three years and it was my first pregnancy.

I was devastated to have a miscarriage and now my boyfriend's ghosting me
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When I told him, he wanted me to have an abortion because of the pandemic and insecurity over his job.

I would not agree, and it caused arguments. But then I miscarried anyway.

I have not seen him since. It has been six weeks and we only live 15 minutes apart.

I can’t believe he would treat me this way.

DEIDRE SAYS: It sounds like your boyfriend reacted to your pregnancy with fear and then felt guilty about you having a miscarriage and not being supportive.

Get in touch to settle whether your relationship can recover from this.

You can both find understanding support through the Miscarriage Association (, 01924 200 799).

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