My girlfriend is shy when it comes to sex and lacks confidence in bed
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is a fantastic person but she is very shy when it comes to sex and lacks confidence in bed.
We are both 20 and live together but she only had one boyfriend before me and, from things she says, I don’t think their sex life ever really got off the ground.
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She is a great kisser and gets very passionate when we have our clothes on, but once in bed she gets easily embarrassed. I try to reassure her and let her take things at her pace. I don’t know what else I can do.
DEIDRE SAYS: Let her go on setting the pace and enjoy passionate kisses with your clothes on. There is nothing like feeling strong desire for you to awaken her inner sex goddess.
Check that the lighting and setting in your bedroom is flattering and romantic to help her feel confident.
My e-leaflet on Thrilling A Woman In Bed will help you get the pace right for her.
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