HE COMES A CROPPER

My partner watches so much porn he struggles to climax with me

DEAR DEIDRE: MY partner watches so much porn he struggles to climax with me. Or he just stops if he can’t be bothered.

I’m a woman of 31 and he is 38.

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My partner watches so much porn he struggles to climax with me

I feel like I’m not enough for him.

It’s so frustrating to know he gets off watching porn but can’t with me.

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I’m a bit overweight, which he reminds me about non-stop.

That makes me feel even worse about myself.

I’ve tried talking to him about it but he doesn’t seem to understand that his daily porn habit is wrecking our sexual connection.

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DEIDRE SAYS: In itself, watching lots of porn tends to have a numbing effect.

Spell it out to your boyfriend an extra pound or two on you is not the problem.

My e-leaflet Man Who Can’t Climax explains more – but ask yourself why you are staying with a man who repeatedly insults you.

You don’t value yourself highly enough and deserve much better.

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