I’ve discovered my boyfriend has a nasty temper since moving in together
DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend has a nasty temper. We argue most days since moving in together.
Even when I’m trying to joke with him, he becomes aggressive.
It’s got to the stage where I’m scared of him.
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He’s only happy when I’m giving him money.
If I ask for the money back or if he can help towards the bills, it turns into a big argument.
He says I’m money mad.
I’m a 25-year-old gay guy. He is 27.
We’ve been together for four months but don’t even have sex now.
I love him but I’m mentally drained.
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DEIDRE SAYS: This man is a controlling bully.
You don’t deserve any of this and you must get help to think about how best to leave him because unless he admits he has a problem and gets help to change, the future will be as grim as the present.
Contact Galop, the LGBT+ anti-violence charity (, 0800 999 5428).
My e-leaflet Abusive Partner? explains more.
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