How can I get my female friend to see that her married lover is a liar?
DEAR DEIDRE: MY friend has a married lover who lies to her constantly but she just can’t see it.
I’m a 30-year-old guy and she’s 31 and single. I really care about her.
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My mate knows this man is married but he’s told her he doesn’t live with his wife.
I know he does because my brother works with him.
He said he was going on a hiking holiday but my brother knew he’d gone to a caravan park with his wife and kids.
She is convinced he’ll want to move in with her, but she’s deluded.
My brother doesn’t want this guy to know he’s snitching on him, so how can I help my friend?
DEIDRE SAYS: Ask your friend how often he stays overnight with her.
It won’t be often so you can say that’s a big clue he’s still with his wife and children.
Say you don’t want to see her get hurt and you can pass her my e-leaflet, Your Lover Not Free?
But also look into your own heart. If what you really want is a relationship with her, be wary of mirroring her situation – falling for someone unavailable.
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