I had passionate sex with my girlfriend’s flatmate and now I want to be with her
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD great sex with my girlfriend’s gorgeous flatmate and now I think I want to be with her.
I have been with my girlfriend for three months and it’s been going well until now.
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One evening I called round to her place as we were going bowling with her two flatmates. One of them answered the door.
She was wearing a black lacy dressing gown. She said my girlfriend had been held up at work and was going to meet me and the others at the bowling alley.
She added that she was just finishing getting ready so I could wait and walk with her if I wanted.
I’m 24 and my girlfriend is 23. This flatmate is 22 with a great figure.
She asked me if I wanted a beer and as she bent down to get a bottle out of the fridge, her dressing gown became taut over her curvy bottom.
She turned around and gave me my beer. She looked down at my crotch, noticed I was aroused and laughed, saying I hadn’t seen anything yet.
She then went upstairs to get ready while I sat with my beer thinking about what had just happened.
A few minutes later I heard her calling me. As I got to the top of the stairs, she was waiting for me on the landing still in her dressing gown.
She asked me if I wanted to see what she had on underneath. While she talked, she slowly undid the dressing gown and let it drop.
I hadn’t really paid her much attention in the past, but she looked stunning in a sexy bra which showed off her curves amazingly. I was so turned on.
She led me to her room where we had the most amazing sex.
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Afterwards she quickly got changed and we headed to the pub where we joined my girlfriend and her other flatmate.
We swapped numbers after the sex. She has been messaging me and we both want a repeat performance.
I think I want to be with this other girl now.
DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe, but it’s not that easy. Do you see girls as commodities you can swap as the fancy takes you?
Your girlfriend’s flatmate comes on strong but can you see a relationship with her lasting?
Wouldn’t you always be wondering who else she was coming on to?
Your relationship with your girlfriend was going well until now. There are going to be ructions if she discovers what has happened.
You are not going to be able to make a smooth transfer from one girl to the other.
Either take all the grief on the chin and end it with your girlfriend so you are free to see this other girl, or firmly tell her you are committed to your girlfriend – and that will mean you are not up for a repeat performance.
And you have to factor in the risks of transmitting coronavirus. Are you in a bubble with your girlfriend?
You can be if you live alone but otherwise you should be social distancing. Sorry to be a spoilsport.
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