Only after we had sex did my partner tell me it was his wedding anniversary
DEAR DEIDRE: ONLY after we’d had sex did my partner tell me it was his wedding anniversary.
He has been separated for four years and I was hurt he would say this after such an intimate moment. I have been trying to get him to divorce for two years but he brushes it off.
Get in touch with Deidre today
My team and I are working safely from home but we are here to help you as always.
Send an email to problems@deardeidre.org.
Every problem gets a personal reply, usually within 24 hours weekdays.
You can also send a private message on the Facebook page.
Follow me on Twitter
He says he wants to marry me. He’s even proposed but we are not officially engaged yet as I want him divorced first. He is 34 and I’m 29. We even have a baby son together. He said that he “felt naughty having sex” because of his anniversary. Was he thinking of his ex and not me?
DEIDRE SAYS: I doubt it. The date probably just came across his radar but it was thoughtless to mention it.
Their relationship is long over. Ask him why he is reluctant to make his divorce official. Is it the financial aspect or is it a reluctance to re-marry?
My e-leaflet, Thinking Of Divorce, details sources of support to help you.
NEXT IN TODAY’S DEAR DEIDRE I am considering faking bankruptcy to see if my girlfriend sticks around
READ DEIDRE’S CLASSIC PHOTO CASEBOOK Nick gets the boot after his mate’s wife crept in his room
GOT a story? RING The Sun on 0207 782 4104 or WHATSAPP on 07423720250 or EMAIL exclusive@the-sun.co.uk