My bride-to-be is getting bigger and moodier and I don’t know if I can still marry her
DEAR DEIDRE: MY bride-to-be is getting bigger and moodier by the day and I don’t know if I can still marry her.
I like chubbier women but she’s gone from overweight to morbidly obese in lockdown.
It’s a bad thing to say but I no longer find her attractive. I’d rather be alone and watch porn than have sex with her.
I know her weight bothers her as it makes her moody. But instead of joining me in the gym, she comfort-eats.
With our wedding day approaching, it’s an awkward discussion to have without hurting her feelings. Most of all I’m concerned about her health.
She’ll have diabetes before you know it. She’s 28 and I’m 32.
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DEIDRE SAYS: She sounds worried herself and being obese brings health problems with Covid.
Tell her you’re concerned about her and have seen her mood change.
Ask her what you can do to help.
Suggest she talks to her doctor and put a joint plan in action. Shop and cook together so you have no rubbish food in the house.
Millions like Joe Wicks, so do his YouTube workouts together. Start with easy ones and use books like Lean In 15 as a guide.