Sex with my wife is always a let-down because I feel no sensation when I climax
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM always excited to have sex with my wife but it is always a let-down because I feel no sensation when I climax.
I am 29 and have been happily married for 18 months to the most wonderful woman. She is 27, kind, caring, patient and loving.
I have always had a high sex drive. I am up for it any time and place. I enjoy foreplay though I struggle to last long.
Everything is normal until I finish, when I feel nothing.
I manage to get the sensation when I sort myself out, or my wife does that for me, so it all still works OK.
I just wish it felt the same when we have full sex.
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DEIDRE SAYS: You can feel pleasurable sensation when climaxing, so you have no physical problem.
You may have repressed thoughts about intercourse.
Maybe fears left over from boyhood or mistaken ideas about female anatomy.
My e-leaflet Finding It Hard To Climax? can help.